that's why i don't have ships in sherlock fandom. it makes no sense, if you think about it. there are two psychopaths, a sociopath, a cake lover and others around them are just ordinary fools. if you are smart, that smart, you will never fall in love, technically. your brain says it's wrong. and smart people listen to their brains. the only love they can feel is for very close friends (john, mary, molly, greg, mrs. h.) and cakes/food.
the canon ship john and mary was the only normal ship and everyone hates it. why? because they listen to their hearts.
nah, man. I don't work like that.
kill jim and after that there's no need to hug or kill anyone. my husband will do what's needed. :)